The one secret to understanding men that you will ever
The Woman Men Adore
and Never Want to Leave
by Bob Grant, LPC
From the office of Bob Grant, LPC -
What if you knew exactly what
to say to a man - the words and actions that always will win his heart?
Have you ever known the kind
of woman ...
men fall hopelessly in love
men want to spend all their
...whom men want to pleaseand do anything for?
...who seems to know how to flirt, effortlessly?
brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man;
...and to whom men want to give
when I read it - it was the missing piece!"
"So then it all clicked: If you want men to embrace
you, treat you like a woman, get the love you want so much,
have the courage to speak from your heart. Tell them when
you're hurting - in a slow soft voice.
"It makes all the difference in the world, and ultimately
draws men near to you. LITERALLY he rushed to grab me! And I
felt so much happier and closer to him.
"The missing piece that Bob Grant gives made me cry when I
read it. It is sure to affect other women the same way."
-- "Jennifer" (the complete
email is near the bottom of this page)
quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men
like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to
spend their lives with her?
I've personally met many women like this -- and here's the
startling observation I've made: These women are not necessarily
the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most
gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!
Do you know that you as a woman,
have the delicious power to make a man fall in love
with you, to influence a man, to bring him to his knees? Do you know how to get a man to want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire?
Yes, it's true! The best part is that you can do it easily and
effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself
into someone you're not - just to keep your man interested. I'll give you
solid proof of this in a moment.
"The Woman Men
Adore... and Never Want to Leave" works - if you're ...
a single woman who wants
to attract the right man -- or add romance to
your dating life
a woman who dates frequently,
but finds it hard to sustain a relationship
with a man;
a woman who wants to
be married but can't seem to persuade the man
in your life to pop the question; or
a married woman who wants to
spark the fire within your marriage and
enjoy deeper intimacy with your husband You'll discover
the secret that will make you radiate like a warm and glowing campfire --
and give you an aura that men will find absolutely irresistible.
From Readers of "The
Woman Men Adore"
"I rarely give
feedback but this one deserves it, the book on 'The Woman
Men Adore' is amazing. I have just read the first part
and boy oh boy the results are amazing.
"The inner me is smiling and therefore its reflected on the
outer body. I am walking confidently, smiling and I
know it won't be long before I am approached - I can sense
"I just wanted to say thanks for recommending this book. I would never
normally buy things like this from the internet. I am already
telling my friends about these techniques and the book."
"I just had to
write to let you know I love and appreciate all the mails
and the comments you make each day. I bought 'The Women Men
Adore' a while back, and it has been my constant reading,
and applying the things learnt.
"HAPPY.. To say it made me a different woman, and 10
months ago, I met the most wonderful man, he's everything I
dreamed of. Because of the book 'The Women Men Adore,' I did
not repeat all the things I had done in my past
"The only thing I can say, is BOB knows how women are, and
every woman should read this book before you get into
another relationship. It's worth every cent!
"My guy.. he asked me to marry him...and I said YES
"I just wanted
to say that it is so true about being the 'woman of our
dreams' - it really does work. I have gone through a recent
divorce of 17 years and thought that the world had ended.
I decided to rise above it all and become what I had always
dreamed of becoming and now... I am on my way."
these comments were sent via email to author Mimi Tanner in
response to her review of this book.
My name is Bob Grant. I've been
a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship
coach for over 20 years. The majority of my clients are
women, who have sought my help in creating successful, satisfying, and
fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men.
More than the certificates and licenses I've accumulated over the years, I
take most pride in the number of wedding invitations I receive from
my clients who've found wonderful relationships as a result of my advice.
I've also saved dozens of marriages from disaster, dissolution -- or just
That's why I'm called "The Relationship Doctor."
I have the
prescription for finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting
relationships that have lost their spark.
The method I'm about to reveal to you is not based on theory,
guesswork or the "psycho-babble" that's disseminated by pop psychologists,
self-help books and women's magazines. Unlike other resources that claim to
help you understand men, my strategy is based on real-life feedback
from thousands of real-life women who tried my method and found that
it produced a dramatic difference in their relationships with men.
What if I told you that you could make a man adore you just by being
Yes, you don't have to be anything but yourself. There's just one
condition. You also have to understand what a man wants.
Now, you can find out what my method can do for you.
"I am extremely skeptical about ebooks, but this is the Real Deal. This book provided more insight than
a year of therapy. I have very little discretionary income, but I
don't regret forking out one penny for this.
"Thank you for recommending this. I never would have found it
without your recommendation. -- T."
Find Out What's In
Do you know how to talk so men will listen - and listen so
men will talk - and share their true feelings with you?
"My Boyfriend Has Been So Affectionate"
"I just wanted to tell you that now I am almost halfway through this
book now and cannot believe how well it works!
"It works like a charm, so well in fact I was surprised how my
boyfriend tried to make things up to me! I followed Bob Grant's
advice - to expose my feelings the way he describes... and again it
was great! In fact, my boyfriend has been so affectionate and clingy
--Kay (the complete email is near the bottom of this page)
Attention: Being the
Woman Men Adore is not based on looks!
A look back in history reveals the likes of ...
... a divorcée (shocking in those days), Wallis Simpson, for whom the Duke of Windsor abdicated
the throne of England;
... the early-twentieth-century French writer Colette
(described as having
a "frightful" appearance), who
managed to have numerous male conquests;
Gellhorn, the plain-looking scholar for whom Ernest Hemingway
became love-sick and never recovered;
...Mumtaz, for whom the Emperor Shah Jahan built the Taj
... and the women throughout history who have won the hearts of Princes and Kings.
These women know the secret to creating magic with men. And here's
the good news for you -- if you're like most women who struggle with
relationship challenges. The ability
to create magic with men is NOT really magic at all.It’s a skill which can be learned
by any woman -- and that includes you!
Before I tell you how to acquire that secret skill (which already resides
inside you, though dormant), let me ask you a question:
Why Do Most Women
Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?
There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I
mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand
men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to
effortlessly attract men like a magnet, and make men powerless
in her hands,. She'd instinctively know how to flirt with a man, make a man fall in love with her, and give her everything her
The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they
turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their friends, and they
rely on relationship advice from women's magazines.
By all means, seek the listening ear of a friend if you simply want to
unburden -- and if talking to your friend makes you feel better.
But always remember that talking to your friends results in deeper and
better friendships with your friends -- but does little to
improve your relationships with men.
So how do you find the answers?
It's by understanding what men want. And what men say they want - but
how they act - are often two very different things!
Will Giving a Man What He Wants
Get You What You Want?
My answer is a resounding "Yes!"
the big secret. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They
may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched,
possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her
siren maneuverings and
be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the
woman who can make him feel good.
Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good.
Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion of "how
to seduce" a man
that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from
Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or that cooking him sumptuous meals
"better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick -- and their man would
stay devoted to them forever. If that were true, then sex therapists,
prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't
There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye.
"Seduction" is 99% Mental Skills
While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by
men, seduction is 99% mental power. Over the years, I've wanted to teach this and other powerful relationship
principles to more than just the female clients who are able to travel to my
office in Georgia for relationship counseling.
So I devised a way to share my relationship
principles so that women all over the world can learn to understand
men and develop successful relationships with them – no matter where they
So I've written a 115-page book titled The
Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave, where I reveal all the
details of how you can entice a man, make him fall in love with you, and
give you the world -- just by using closely guarded secrets that I've
compiled over the last 20 years.
For example, on page 110,
I reveal a very powerful technique that every woman (who wants to
know how to inspire her man to consistently search for ways to please her)
can use. It works like a charm. All you have to do is say 3 sentences
to him -- I give the exact word-for-word "script". Once you say those
words, it's like effortlessly casting a spell over him. He won't be
able to get you off his mind -- and will look for every opportunity to
Wouldn't you want to know what those 3 sentences are?
5 things men cravethat
women don't know about -- Nothing in the world is more exhilarating for a
man than these -- and if you give them to him, you'll have his
undying devotion. (See pages 106-110)
The main reason
why men choose to get married
(or stay married) to a particular woman. This can be summed up
in 5 words. Carve these words in your heart and never forget them.
(See page 20)
The powerful ability
a woman possesses that causes men to be interested in her -- even if she
isn’t the tallest, smartest, or the most beautiful woman around. Not even
looks, sex appeal, money, power, or prestige rate as high as this ability
when it comes to making
yourself irresistible to men -- and you can easily have
it with a little practice. (See page 33)
Do you know what's the No. 1 "man repellant" in existence?
Ignore this and you'll make him feel incapable of being your hero.
This could very well be a major reason as to why "he's just not that into
you." (See page 27)
How to speak in a
way that hypnotizes a man into feeling safe so that he'll allow you
to influence him with no resistance. (See page 16)
How to be yourself and
still be loved by a man – I'll show you how to find the courage to
be imperfect and be loved in spite of it -- and teach you how to
remove the “layers’ that keep a man from knowing and loving you.
(See page 64)
Pinpoint exactly what
you’re doing that makes men NOT want to be close to you. How to
tell if you're unknowingly sending off a signal that says "You can
only get this close, and that's it." (See page 8)
How to make a man do what
you want him to do – and make him think it was his idea!
(See page 23).
How to influence or shape
your man's opinion with the power of words -- even if he doesn’t see the
need to change. How you influence him will affect his behavior toward you
-- for better or for worse. (See page 97)
the secret to making a man feel understood by you. Master this
secret and you can ask your man for almost anything, and he’d be willing
to give it. (See page 94)
How to use your femininity to disarm a man,
break down his defenses -- and turn him into a caring and sensitive man
you've always wanted.
(See page 32)
How to master the art of
perfect timing to get what you want in a relationship.
(See pages 94-96)
Why you should not
compete with your man -- and when to allow your man to be your
superior. Even when you're capable of being his equal, trying to be
his equal in certain areas will drive him away, and won’t lead to the
intimacy you crave. (See page 73)
How to use your innate
feminine power to make a
man powerless to resist you. This is what separates women that
men fall in love with from those that men ignore and take for granted.
(See page 15)
The things a woman does
that makes a man shut down and feel alienated from her. If
you're doing these things, you may be sabotaging your relationship.
(See page 34)
The kiss of death in a relationship --
and how to avoid it.
(See page 96)
ultimate secret that will give you more
influence with men
than you've ever imagined. This might sound silly -- but it works
like magic when it comes to persuading men to your way of thinking.
(See page 78)
part of your body that serves as a
which men want to be held captive to. No, it's not your breasts,
legs or derrière. Use this part of your body to the hilt and you'll have
him wrapped around your little finger. (See
How to make a man feel
cherished by you, and as a result, he will want to spend more time with
you and want to be around you more. (See page 94)
Why some women drive away
good men or continually pick losers – How to tell the difference between
impulses and feelings, so that you'll never again allow the
intensity of impulses guide you to a poor choice in men.
(See page 38)
How to be strong by being
vulnerable - Women who know how to use vulnerability as a relationship
device are always astonished by the impact they make on a man.
(See page 10)
How to determine if you
have “barbed wire around your heart” – and how to let that defensive
weapon down and allow a man to love you. (See page
How to take advantage of
a man's natural predisposition to make him do everything
possible to make you happy. (See page 72)
What do men really
find attractive about a woman? A survey of hundreds of men reveals that
it's not a woman's breasts, legs or derrière that they always
consider more attractive. It's something you already have, and when you
crank it up to mega-watt brilliance, you'll maximize your sex appeal.
(See pages 33-34)
No. 1 problem that couples face
This problem is like a cancer that permeates all other areas of your life
-- and I show you 3 ways to overcome it. (See page
Why Men Don’t Listen
– The "Reflective Listening" technique you can do that will make a man
eagerly listen to what you’re saying as if it were pure gold.
The 4 words that all
women should memorize in order to have successful relationships with men.
These words point to a fundamental difference between men and women that
you must never forget. (See page 14)
The "Truth List" Exercise
- A magical technique for uncovering the special qualities that men
(and people in general) find attractive in you. This will enable you to
allow those qualities to surface -- thereby boosting your confidence along
the way. Men find confidence absolutely sexy!
(See pages 61-62)
How not to let your past
hurts sabotage your chance of having successful relationships.
(See page 52)
"Thanks for the advice on ordering this e-book!
It's brilliant! I can't believe my man is doing so much for me!
"Thanks again -- J."
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If you're a single woman, you will discover how to become totally irresistible to men, attracting the man of
your dreams, making him fall in love with you, marry you and give you
everything your heart desires.
If you're a married woman, you will discover how to reignite
the spark in your marriage, make your husband fall in love with you all
over again, enjoy deeper intimacy with him, and have an enduring marriage.
You will no longer have to spend your time trying to figure men
out, and read them like a book. You will have the ability to
easily diffuse quarrels, arguments, and other relationship troubles
as they occur, and be able to effortlessly influence your man to your way of
The reason I created my e-book is to help more than just clients who are able to meet with me face-to-face in my home state of Georgia -- and also
to help those who can't afford the high cost of relationship counseling.
My Personal, No-Risk, Iron-Clad, "You're Going To Love This Book" 100%
I am so confident that
you'll be absolutely thrilled with "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want
to Leave," and that I couldn't pry it out of your hands if I tried. But why should you take my word for it? When you get your hands on
the information in this e-book today, you will put these insights to the test for a full eight weeks. As you read every page and
use all the tips, tactics and strategies, you'll love the responses from the men in your life. Information like this is priceless.
You'll find, as thousands of women already know, that "The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave" contains the keys to love you have been waiting for. But if, after applying these methods, you don't gain information that makes all the difference with your man, then simply email me for a refund of your purchase price.
That's how certain I am that you too will discover the joy of being in love - with your copy of "The Woman Men Adore" to guide you.
This is the Last Relationship
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The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to
"first and last of its kind” relationship book that will show you how to
completely understand men once and for all – and use that understanding to
create the relationship of your dreams -- not in months or years, but
immediately. That is why this is the last book on man-woman
relationships that you’ll ever need to read.
You’ll get everything you need right in this book to accomplish your
relationship goals and completely change your life.
You've probably heard of bestselling books like "Men are from Mars, Women
are From Venus" and "He's Just Not That Into You." Unlike those
books and other relationship books on the market that point to the glaring
differences between men and women ("Tell me something I didn't know!")
Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave
goes much deeper: this book teaches you how to use those differences to your
When you master the principles I teach in
Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave,
men won't be able to resist you, they'll do your bidding, and will feel
powerless around you. Best of all, they're going to love every minute of
it. Everybody wins!
Whether you want to “get out of a
relationship rut,” attract the relationship you want into your life, or find
fulfillment in your current relationship, I hope that for your sake, you'll
take the path to relationship success that hundreds of my clients have
"Bob Grant's books are about speaking from your heart in a way that
men can receive best. Bob tells you not only 'what to do' and 'how'
- he also tells you 'why' this has such a profound effect on your
"Imagine taking away the problems and the pressure and any issues
hanging over your head or his, and having him free to just love
"I tell readers that if you are not reading The Woman Men Adore and
putting it into practice, your relationship will be inferior to what
it could be. Refer to it regularly - we all need to read and reread
the top books again and again, on all subjects to do with human
relationships. Usually when I re-read a book, I'm wishing I had done this sooner! The things we say
'oh I know that' - but we so often forget them when it comes to "crunch time" with others."
Mimi Tanner, author of
Man Mistake Eraser
- How to Fix It When You've Messed Up with a Man
"Bob... you've done a wonderful job
of explaining what it is that makes some women exceptionally
attractive from a man's perspective and why most men adore being
around these kind of women.
I especially liked Chapter 10, and agree
with you that if more couples understood the differences between an
Introverted vs Extroverted personality type, a lot of the
misunderstandings between men and women could be avoided.
You can be sure that I'm going to
recommend your book to all our current and future Match-Marks.com
members." -- Jill Montgomery, Chief Matchmaker for
Bob: Thank you for the opportunity to review your book,
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave. As a fellow therapist and also a woman, your book
provides some interesting insights that I think will be particularly
helpful to any woman wanting to gain a better understanding of what
men want. I enjoyed reading your book and I am confident that others
will too. The best to you!" -- Dr. Reena Sommer, Relationship
Consultant, New York Times contributor and author of
The Anatomy of An Affair.
And here is what more readers have to say about this unique book:
"I Wish I Had Known About Bob Grant's Proven Method
I found myself single again after being divorced six years ago, I dove into
a series of relationships with men that started out strong, but
eventually fizzled out. I didn't know what I was doing wrong.
I've read dozens of relationship books, but
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave
is the first one that really made me understand men -- and use that
understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and
become a woman that a man
loves, cherishes, and never wants to part with.
"I only wish
I had known about Bob's proven method years ago. I could have had
less heartaches and more fulfilling and enduring relationships.
And I might have saved my marriage as well. This book is mandatory
reading for all women!"
Maria V., Beverly Hills, California
"I was in a sticky situation this weekend with my boyfriend - we
have just got back together for the second time to try and make
All was going well but then I lost it on Saturday because something
he said or didn't say set me off. I now realize it was all the
resentment building up inside me - things which happened in the past
that I didn't bring up for fear of being the 'witch' or 'nag' and
yet they have been festering inside me all this time.
"This happened just before I started the book you told me about. Of
course I called my boyfriend back and 'blew a fuse' to which he
became defensive and was at a complete loss as to what was going on
"Before he called me again, I bought Bob Grant's book. I can't tell
you how much the book made sense and I used what I had learned in
those few hours before I talked to my boyfriend again... and what a
"I just wanted to tell you that now
I am almost halfway through it now and cannot believe how well it
"It works like a charm,
so well in fact I was surprised how my boyfriend tried to make things
up to me! I followed Bob Grant's advice - to expose my feelings the
way he describes ...and again it was great! In fact,
my boyfriend has been so affectionate and clingy it's weird!!!!!
"Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for recommending this book. I
would never normally buy things like this from the internet. I am
already telling my girlfriends about these techniques and the book.
"Thanks again. -- Kay"
"Dear Mimi, I have been reading your emails for weeks. I immediately
ordered Bob Grant's book yesterday and did not put it down.
"I cried. This was the missing link I needed. Why couldn't I have
the relationships that other women were enjoying?
"The missing piece of the puzzle is vulnerability and the courage to
speak from my heart. Let me tell you how the last 24 hours have
changed for me.
1.) I decided I'd wear heels and a skirt today; I wanted to embrace
my feminine side. I do walk and act differently when dressed like
this! The heads were definitely turning.
2.) I decided to wear makeup and smile more! This makes all the
difference in the world in how men notice me.
HOLD IT - Here is the best part!
3.) I went out to lunch with a male friend of mine who likes me but
also keeps his distance, probably because I act so hard or guarded.
But today, over lunch, he made a comment of me being jealous about a
mutual friend's relationship.
"Instead of just burying how that hurt me, and shutting down...
instead of being snippy, and short with him to punish him for saying
that... I did something different. I spoke from my heart.
"I lowered my eyes, and in a soft, slow voice I said, 'You know,
that really hurt my feelings. I'm not jealous of her relationship.
That's not something I would be upset about.'
"And do you know he immediately apologized, got a little tongue-tied
even, and then put his arms around me to give me a hug!
"And I INSTANTLY felt better, whereas before, I would have been
angry and not spoken to him for the rest of the day. Before, I would
have just harbored resentment and built up an emotional wall.
"So then it all clicked: If you want men to embrace you, treat you
like a woman, get the love you want so much, have the courage to
speak from your heart. Tell them when you're hurting in a slow soft
"It makes all the difference in the world, and ultimately draws men
near to you. LITERALLY he rushed to grab me! And I felt so much
happier and closer to him.
"The missing piece that Bob Grant gives made me cry when I read it.
It is sure to affect other women the same way."
These emails are real emails that were sent to author Mimi Tanner in
response to her recommendation of The Woman Men Adore
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