The One Secret To Understanding Men That You Will Ever Need
By Bob Grant, LPC
From the office of Bob Grant, LPC
What if you knew exactly what to say to a man - the words and actions that will always win his heart?
Have you ever known the kind of woman...
...that men fall hopelessly in love with?
...with whom men want to spend all their time?
...whom men want to please and do anything for?
...who seems to know how to flirt, effortlessly?
...who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man;
...and to whom men want to give everything?
"I cried when I read it - it was the missing piece!"
"So then it all clicked: If you want men to embrace you, treat you like a woman, get the love you want so much, have the courage to speak from your heart. Tell them when you're hurting - in a slow soft voice.
"It makes all the difference in the world, and ultimately draws men near to you. LITERALLY he rushed to grab me! And I felt so much happier and closer to him.
"The missing piece that Bob Grant gives made me cry when I read it. It is sure to affect other women the same way."
-- "Jennifer" (the complete email is near the bottom of this page)
What special quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to spend their lives with her?
I've personally met many women like this -- and here's the startling observation I've made: These women are not necessarily the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!
Do you know that you as a woman, have the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, to influence a man, to bring him to his knees? Do you know how to get a man to want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire?
Yes, it's true! The best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself into someone you're not - just to keep your man interested. I'll give you solid proof of this in a moment.
"The Woman Men Adore... and Never Want to Leave" works - if you're ...
a single woman who wants to attract the right man -- or add romance to your dating life
a woman who dates frequently, but finds it hard to sustain a relationship with a man;
a woman who wants to be married but can't seem to persuade the man in your life to pop the question; or
a married woman who wants to spark the fire within your marriage and enjoy deeper intimacy with your husband
You'll discover the secret that will make you radiate like a warm and glowing campfire -- and give you an aura that men will find absolutely irresistible.
From Readers of "The Woman Men Adore"
"I rarely give feedback but this one deserves it, the book on 'The Woman Men Adore' is amazing. I have just read the first part and boy oh boy the results are amazing.
"The inner me is smiling and therefore its reflected on the outer body. I am walking confidently, smiling and I know it won't be long before I am approached - I can sense it."
"I just wanted to say thanks for recommending this book. I would never normally buy things like this from the internet. I am already telling my friends about these techniques and the book."
"I just had to write to let you know I love and appreciate all the mails and the comments you make each day. I bought 'The Women Men Adore' a while back, and it has been my constant reading, and applying the things learnt.
"HAPPY.. To say it made me a different woman, and 10 months ago, I met the most wonderful man, he's everything I dreamed of. Because of the book 'The Women Men Adore,' I did not repeat all the things I had done in my past relationships.
"The only thing I can say, is BOB knows how women are, and every woman should read this book before you get into another relationship. It's worth every cent!
"My guy.. he asked me to marry him...and I said YES :):)"
"I just wanted to say that it is so true about being the 'woman of our dreams' - it really does work. I have gone through a recent divorce of 17 years and thought that the world had ended. I decided to rise above it all and become what I had always dreamed of becoming and now... I am on my way."
Many of these comments were sent via email to author Mimi Tanner in response to her review of this book.
My name is Bob Grant. I've been a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach for over 20 years. The majority of my clients are women, who have sought my help in creating successful, satisfying, and fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men.
More than the certificates and licenses I've accumulated over the years, I take most pride in the number of wedding invitations I receive from my clients who've found wonderful relationships as a result of my advice. I've also saved dozens of marriages from disaster, dissolution -- or just plain boredom.
That's why I'm called "The Relationship Doctor." I have the prescription for finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting relationships that have lost their spark.
The method I'm about to reveal to you is not based on theory, guesswork or the "psycho-babble" that's disseminated by pop psychologists, self-help books and women's magazines. Unlike other resources that claim to help you understand men, my strategy is based on real-life feedback from thousands of real-life women who tried my method and found that it produced a dramatic difference in their relationships with men.
What if I told you that you could make a man adore you just by being yourself?
Yes, you don't have to be anything but yourself. There's just one condition. You also have to understand what a man wants.
Now, you can find out what my method can do for you.
"I am extremely skeptical about ebooks, but this is the Real Deal. This book provided more insight than a year of therapy. I have very little discretionary income, but I don't regret forking out one penny for this.
"Thank you for recommending this. I never would have found it without your recommendation. -- T."
Find Out What's In This Book
Do you know how to talk so men will listen - and listen so men will talk - and share their true feelings with you?
"My Boyfriend Has Been So Affectionate"
"I just wanted to tell you that now I am almost halfway through this book now and cannot believe how well it works!
"It works like a charm, so well in fact I was surprised how my boyfriend tried to make things up to me! I followed Bob Grant's advice - to expose my feelings the way he describes... and again it was great! In fact, my boyfriend has been so affectionate and clingy it's weird!!!!!"
--Kay (the complete email is near the bottom of this page)
Attention: Being the Woman Men Adore is not based on looks!
A look back in history reveals the likes of...
... a divorcee (shocking in those days), Wallis Simpson, for whom the Duke of Windsor abdicated the throne of England;
... the early-twentieth-century French writer Colette (described as having a "frightful" appearance), who managed to have numerous male conquests;
... Martha Gellhorn, the plain-looking scholar for whom Ernest Hemingway became love-sick and never recovered;
... Mumtaz, for whom the Emperor Shah Jahan built the Taj Mahal;
... and the women throughout history who have won the hearts of Princes and Kings.
These women know the secret to creating magic with men. And here's the good news for you -- if you're like most women who struggle with relationship challenges. The ability to create magic with men is NOT really magic at all. It's a skill which can be learned by any woman -- and that includes you!
Before I tell you how to acquire that secret skill (which already resides inside you, though dormant), let me ask you a question:
Why Do Most Women Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?
There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, and make men powerless in her hands,. She'd instinctively know how to flirt with a man, make a man fall in love with her, and give her everything her heart desires.
The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their friends, and they rely on relationship advice from women's magazines.
By all means, seek the listening ear of a friend if you simply want to unburden -- and if talking to your friend makes you feel better. But always remember that talking to your friends results in deeper and better friendships with your friends -- but does little to improve your relationships with men.
So how do you find the answers? It's by understanding what men want. And what men say they want - but how they act - are often two very different things!
Will Giving a Man What He Wants Get You What You Want?
My answer is a resounding "Yes!"
Here's the big secret. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.
Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good. Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion of "how to seduce" a man that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or that cooking him sumptuous meals "better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick -- and their man would stay devoted to them forever. If that were true, then sex therapists, prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't they?
There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye.
"Seduction" is 99% Mental Skills
While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by men, seduction is 99% mental power. Over the years, I've wanted to teach this and other powerful relationship principles to more than just the female clients who are able to travel to my office in Georgia for relationship counseling.
So I devised a way to share my relationship principles so that women all over the world can learn to understand men and develop successful relationships with them - no matter where they live! So I've written a 115-page book titled The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave, where I reveal all the details of how you can entice a man, make him fall in love with you, and give you the world -- just by using closely guarded secrets that I've compiled over the last 20 years.
For example, on page 110, I reveal a very powerful technique that every woman (who wants to know how to inspire her man to consistently search for ways to please her) can use. It works like a charm. All you have to do is say 3 sentences to him -- I give the exact word-for-word "script". Once you say those words, it's like effortlessly casting a spell over him. He won't be able to get you off his mind -- and will look for every opportunity to please you.
Wouldn't you want to know what those 3 sentences are?
And if you think that's exciting, wait till you see all the other mouth-watering secrets I reveal in The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave. Take a sneak peek below:
• 5 things men crave that women don't know about -- Nothing in the world is more exhilarating for a man than these -- and if you give them to him, you'll have his undying devotion. (See pages 106-110)
• The main reason why men choose to get married (or stay married) to a particular woman. This can be summed up in 5 words. Carve these words in your heart and never forget them. (See page 20)
• The powerful ability a woman possesses that causes men to be interested in her -- even if she isn't the tallest, smartest, or the most beautiful woman around. Not even looks, sex appeal, money, power, or prestige rate as high as this ability when it comes to making yourself irresistible to men -- and you can easily have it with a little practice. (See page 33)
• Do you know what's the No. 1 "man repellant" in existence? Ignore this and you'll make him feel incapable of being your hero. This could very well be a major reason as to why "he's just not that into you." (See page 27)
• How to speak in a way that hypnotizes a man into feeling safe so that he'll allow you to influence him with no resistance. (See page 16)
• How to be yourself and still be loved by a man - I'll show you how to find the courage to be imperfect and be loved in spite of it -- and teach you how to remove the "layers" that keep a man from knowing and loving you. (See page 64)
• Pinpoint exactly what you're doing that makes men NOT want to be close to you. How to tell if you're unknowingly sending off a signal that says "You can only get this close, and that's it." (See page 8)
• How to make a man do what you want him to do - and make him think it was his idea! (See page 23).
• How to influence or shape your man's opinion with the power of words -- even if he doesn't see the need to change. How you influence him will affect his behavior toward you -- for better or for worse. (See page 97)
• Discover the secret to making a man feel understood by you. Master this secret and you can ask your man for almost anything, and he'd be willing to give it. (See page 94)
• How to use your femininity to disarm a man, break down his defenses -- and turn him into a caring and sensitive man you've always wanted. (See page 32)
• How to master the art of perfect timing to get what you want in a relationship. (See pages 94-96)
• Why you should not compete with your man -- and when to allow your man to be your superior. Even when you're capable of being his equal, trying to be his equal in certain areas will drive him away, and won't lead to the intimacy you crave. (See page 73)
• How to use your innate feminine power to make a man powerless to resist you. This is what separates women that men fall in love with from those that men ignore and take for granted. (See page 15)
• The things a woman does that makes a man shut down and feel alienated from her. If you're doing these things, you may be sabotaging your relationship. (See page 34)
• The kiss of death in a relationship -- and how to avoid it. (See page 96)
• The ultimate secret that will give you more influence with men than you've ever imagined. This might sound silly -- but it works like magic when it comes to persuading men to your way of thinking. (See page 78)
• The part of your body that serves as a strong elixir, which men want to be held captive to. No, it's not your breasts, legs or derriere. Use this part of your body to the hilt and you'll have him wrapped around your little finger. (See page 109)
• How to make a man feel cherished by you, and as a result, he will want to spend more time with you and want to be around you more. (See page 94)
• Why some women drive away good men or continually pick losers - How to tell the difference between impulses and feelings, so that you'll never again allow the intensity of impulses guide you to a poor choice in men. (See page 38)
• How to be strong by being vulnerable - Women who know how to use vulnerability as a relationship device are always astonished by the impact they make on a man. (See page 10)
• How to determine if you have "barbed wire around your heart" - and how to let that defensive weapon down and allow a man to love you. (See page 51-53)
• How to take advantage of a man's natural predisposition to make him do everything possible to make you happy. (See page 72)
• What do men really find attractive about a woman? A survey of hundreds of men reveals that it's not a woman's breasts, legs or derriere that they always consider more attractive. It's something you already have, and when you crank it up to mega-watt brilliance, you'll maximize your sex appeal. (See pages 33-34)
• The No. 1 problem that couples face. This problem is like a cancer that permeates all other areas of your life -- and I show you 3 ways to overcome it. (See page 45)
• Why Men Don't Listen - The "Reflective Listening" technique you can do that will make a man eagerly listen to what you're saying as if it were pure gold. (Page 103)
• The 4 words that all women should memorize in order to have successful relationships with men. These words point to a fundamental difference between men and women that you must never forget. (See page 14)
• The "Truth List" Exercise - A magical technique for uncovering the special qualities that men (and people in general) find attractive in you. This will enable you to allow those qualities to surface -- thereby boosting your confidence along the way. Men find confidence absolutely sexy! (See pages 61-62)
• How not to let your past hurts sabotage your chance of having successful relationships. (See page 52)
"Thanks for the advice on ordering this book! It's brilliant! I can't believe my man is doing so much for me!
"Thanks again -- J."
What Will This Book Do For You?
If you're a single woman, you will discover how to become totally irresistible to men, attracting the man of your dreams, making him fall in love with you, marry you and give you everything your heart desires.
If you're a married woman, you will discover how to reignite the spark in your marriage, make your husband fall in love with you all over again, enjoy deeper intimacy with him, and have an enduring marriage.
You will no longer have to spend your time trying to figure men out, and read them like a book. You will have the ability to easily diffuse quarrels, arguments, and other relationship troubles as they occur, and be able to effortlessly influence your man to your way of thinking.
The reason I created my e-book is to help more than just clients who are able to meet with me face-to-face in my home state of Georgia -- and also to help those who can't afford the high cost of relationship counseling.
So I urge you take me up on my offer now. This book is NOT in bookstores - only available online!
My Personal, No-Risk, Iron-Clad, "You're Going To Love This Book" 100% Guarantee
I am so confident that you'll be absolutely thrilled with "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave," and that I couldn't pry it out of your hands if I tried. But why should you take my word for it? When you get your hands on the information in this e-book today, you will put these insights to the test for a full eight weeks. As you read every page and use all the tips, tactics and strategies, you'll love the responses from the men in your life. Information like this is priceless.
You'll find, as thousands of women already know, that "The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave" contains the keys to love you have been waiting for. But if, after applying these methods, you don't gain information that makes all the difference with your man, then simply email me for a refund of your purchase price. That's how certain I am that you too will discover the joy of being in love - with your copy of "The Woman Men Adore" to guide you.
This is the Last Relationship Book You'll Ever Need
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave is the "first and last of its kind" relationship book that will show you how to completely understand men once and for all - and use that understanding to create the relationship of your dreams -- not in months or years, but immediately. That is why this is the last book on man-woman relationships that you'll ever need to read. You'll get everything you need right in this book to accomplish your relationship goals and completely change your life.
You've probably heard of bestselling books like "Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus" and "He's Just Not That Into You." Unlike those books and other relationship books on the market that point to the glaring differences between men and women ("Tell me something I didn't know!") The Woman Men Adore... and Never Want to Leave goes much deeper: this book teaches you how to use those differences to your utmost advantage.
When you master the principles I teach in The Woman Men Adore... and Never Want to Leave, men won't be able to resist you, they'll do your bidding, and will feel powerless around you. Best of all, they're going to love every minute of it. Everybody wins!
Whether you want to "get out of a relationship rut," attract the relationship you want into your life, or find fulfillment in your current relationship, I hope that for your sake, you'll take the path to relationship success that hundreds of my clients have taken.
Wishing you the relationship of your dreams,
Bob Grant, L.P.C.
P.S. Here's what other relationship experts are saying about The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave:
"Bob Grant's books are about speaking from your heart in a way that men can receive best. Bob tells you not only 'what to do' and 'how' - he also tells you 'why' this has such a profound effect on your man.
"Imagine taking away the problems and the pressure and any issues hanging over your head or his, and having him free to just love you!
"I tell readers that if you are not reading The Woman Men Adore and putting it into practice, your relationship will be inferior to what it could be. Refer to it regularly - we all need to read and reread the top books again and again, on all subjects to do with human relationships. Usually when I re-read a book, I'm wishing I had done this sooner! The things we say 'oh I know that' - but we so often forget them when it comes to "crunch time" with others."
- Mimi Tanner, author of Man Mistake Eraser - How to Fix It When You've Messed Up With A Man
"Bob... you've done a wonderful job of explaining what it is that makes some women exceptionally attractive from a man's perspective and why most men adore being around these kind of women.
I especially liked Chapter 10, and agree with you that if more couples understood the differences between an Introverted vs Extroverted personality type, a lot of the misunderstandings between men and women could be avoided.
You can be sure that I'm going to recommend your book to all our current and future Match-Marks.com members."
- Jill Montgomery, Chief Matchmaker for Match-Marks.com
"Dear Bob: Thank you for the opportunity to review your book, The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave. As a fellow therapist and also a woman, your book provides some interesting insights that I think will be particularly helpful to any woman wanting to gain a better understanding of what men want. I enjoyed reading your book and I am confident that others will too. The best to you!" -- Dr. Reena Sommer, Relationship Consultant, New York Times contributor and author of The Anatomy of An Affair.
And here is what more readers have to say about this unique book:
"I Wish I Had Known About Bob Grant's Proven Method Years Ago"
"When I found myself single again after being divorced six years ago, I dove into a series of relationships with men that started out strong, but eventually fizzled out. I didn't know what I was doing wrong. I've read dozens of relationship books, but The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave is the first one that really made me understand men -- and use that understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and become a woman that a man loves, cherishes, and never wants to part with.
"I only wish I had known about Bob's proven method years ago. I could have had less heartaches and more fulfilling and enduring relationships. And I might have saved my marriage as well. This book is mandatory reading for all women!"
-- Maria V., Beverly Hills, California
"I was in a sticky situation this weekend with my boyfriend - we have just got back together for the second time to try and make things work.
All was going well but then I lost it on Saturday because something he said or didn't say set me off. I now realize it was all the resentment building up inside me - things which happened in the past that I didn't bring up for fear of being the 'witch' or 'nag' and yet they have been festering inside me all this time.
"This happened just before I started the book you told me about. Of course I called my boyfriend back and 'blew a fuse' to which he became defensive and was at a complete loss as to what was going on with me!
"Before he called me again, I bought Bob Grant's book. I can't tell you how much the book made sense and I used what I had learned in those few hours before I talked to my boyfriend again... and what a difference!!!
"I just wanted to tell you that now I am almost halfway through it now and cannot believe how well it works!
"It works like a charm, so well in fact I was surprised how my boyfriend tried to make things up to me! I followed Bob Grant's advice - to expose my feelings the way he describes ...and again it was great! In fact, my boyfriend has been so affectionate and clingy it's weird!!!!!
"Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for recommending this book. I would never normally buy things like this from the internet. I am already telling my girlfriends about these techniques and the book.
"Thanks again. -- Kay"
"Dear Mimi, I have been reading your emails for weeks. I immediately ordered Bob Grant's book yesterday and did not put it down.
"I cried. This was the missing link I needed. Why couldn't I have the relationships that other women were enjoying?
"The missing piece of the puzzle is vulnerability and the courage to speak from my heart. Let me tell you how the last 24 hours have changed for me.
1.) I decided I'd wear heels and a skirt today; I wanted to embrace my feminine side. I do walk and act differently when dressed like this! The heads were definitely turning.
2.) I decided to wear makeup and smile more! This makes all the difference in the world in how men notice me.
HOLD IT - Here is the best part!
3.) I went out to lunch with a male friend of mine who likes me but also keeps his distance, probably because I act so hard or guarded. But today, over lunch, he made a comment of me being jealous about a mutual friend's relationship.
"Instead of just burying how that hurt me, and shutting down... instead of being snippy, and short with him to punish him for saying that... I did something different. I spoke from my heart.
"I lowered my eyes, and in a soft, slow voice I said, 'You know, that really hurt my feelings. I'm not jealous of her relationship. That's not something I would be upset about.'
"And do you know he immediately apologized, got a little tongue-tied even, and then put his arms around me to give me a hug!
"And I INSTANTLY felt better, whereas before, I would have been angry and not spoken to him for the rest of the day. Before, I would have just harbored resentment and built up an emotional wall.
"So then it all clicked: If you want men to embrace you, treat you like a woman, get the love you want so much, have the courage to speak from your heart. Tell them when you're hurting in a slow soft voice.
"It makes all the difference in the world, and ultimately draws men near to you. LITERALLY he rushed to grab me! And I felt so much happier and closer to him.
"The missing piece that Bob Grant gives made me cry when I read it. It is sure to affect other women the same way."
These emails are real emails that were sent to author Mimi Tanner in response to her recommendation of The Woman Men Adore.